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Paralives Together Cards

All 442 Together Cards across 13 categories. 87 cards with success chances, 180-second cooldown between uses.

442Cards
13Categories
87Can fail
20minBar fill
180sCooldown

How Together Cards work

Core social mechanic

When Parafolk gather, the game draws a hand of Together Cards based on their personalities, emotions, and relationships. The hand size depends on group size: 3 cards for 1-3 People, 2 cards for 4-5 People, 1 cards for 6+ People. Each card has a weight that determines how likely it is to appear, and some cards require specific personality traits or emotional states.

Card weights & timing

4 weight tiers

NormalWeight 1 · NPC odds 1x
ImportantWeight 2 · NPC odds 5x
Very ImportantWeight 3 · NPC odds 10x
Extremely ImportantWeight 4 · NPC odds 100x

Cooldown: 180s between same card. Bar fill: 20 min (known) / 5 min (strangers).

Browse all 13 categories

Together Card categories

130

General

General conversation cards covering everyday topics like weather, interests, food, technology, fitness, and daily life.

4 can fail
89

Flirty

Romantic interaction cards for flirting, complimenting appearance, confessing feelings, and building romantic relationships.

72 can fail
48

Mean

Hostile interaction cards for insulting, mocking, arguing with, or being rude to other Parafolk.

35

Skills

Cards that let Parafolk discuss, share tips about, or show off their learned skills like piano, guitar, painting, or fitness.

33

Introduction

First-meeting cards used when Parafolk introduce themselves to strangers, with personality-flavored variants.

3 can fail4 personality
24

Baby

Cards specifically for interactions involving babies and toddlers, including baby talk, peek-a-boo, and singing lullabies.

23

Funny

Joke-telling cards that can succeed or fail based on personality and mood. Includes puns, dark jokes, and comedy routines.

19

Share Tips

Cards for sharing knowledge and tips about skills with other Parafolk, helping them learn faster.

7 can fail
17

Complain

Cards for complaining and venting about problems, bad moods, work issues, or unsatisfying situations.

9

Relationship Milestone

Special cards that trigger when a relationship reaches a new level, marking milestones like becoming friends or best friends.

6

Get to Know

Cards for getting to know other Parafolk by asking about their job, family, vibe, or relationship status.

5

Request

Request cards where one Parafolk asks another for something specific, like lending money or doing a favor.

4

Brag

Cards for boasting about achievements, showing off skills, or proudly sharing accomplishments with others.

1 can fail

Category rankings

Biggest categories & success-chance leaders

Most cards

Top 6 categories by card count

  1. 1General130 cards
  2. 2Flirty89 cards
  3. 3Mean48 cards
  4. 4Skills35 cards
  5. 5Introduction33 cards
  6. 6Baby24 cards

Most success-chance cards

Categories where cards can fail

  1. 1Flirty72/89 can fail
  2. 2Share Tips7/19 can fail
  3. 3General4/130 can fail
  4. 4Introduction3/33 can fail
  5. 5Brag1/4 can fail

Frequently asked

Together Cards FAQ

What are Together Cards in Paralives?
Together Cards are the core social interaction system in Paralives. When two or more Parafolk are together, the game draws a hand of cards representing possible conversation topics and actions. Players pick a card to steer the interaction. There are 442 cards across 13 categories in Early Access build 1.
How many Together Card categories are there in Paralives?
There are 13 Together Card categories: General (146 cards), Flirty (89), Mean (48), Skills (35), Introduction (33), Baby (24), Funny (23), Share Tips (19), Complain (17), Relationship Milestone (9), Get to Know (6), Request (5), and Brag (4).
How does card weight affect Together Cards?
Each Together Card has a weight tier that affects how likely it is to appear. Normal cards have weight 1 and 1x NPC initiative. Important cards have weight 2 and 5x NPC initiative. Very Important cards have weight 3 and 10x NPC initiative. Extremely Important cards have weight 4 and 100x NPC initiative.
Do personality traits affect which Together Cards appear?
Yes. Some Together Cards require specific personality traits. For example, certain Introduction cards are only available to Parafolk with the Overjoyed, Serious, or Gloomy vibe traits. Personality-gated cards create more authentic social interactions tied to each character's identity.
What is the cooldown between Together Cards in Paralives?
After a Together Card is used, there is a 180-second (3-minute) cooldown before that same card can appear again. Some cards ignore or override this cooldown. The Together bar takes 20 minutes to fill for known Parafolk and only 5 minutes for strangers.

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Data extracted from Paralives Early Access game files (build 1). Stats and counts verified against the shipped catalog.